Tuesday, December 20, 2011

How to get over?

I know everyone of us has gone through heartaches and heartbreaks and I believe that only a few of us can handle breakups easily. So here are five (5) tips on how to get over a past relationship:

SAY GOODBYE BUT NEVER SAY HELLO AGAIN. Stop being fickle minded. I know we girls, are born like this but this is the right time to put an end to it. If you are going through the same shit and he doesn't know how to compromise then he is not worth the tears. If the pain is killing every part of you, believe me! there's no better cure than saying your last words and leave. And please don't even look back! Say what you mean and mean what you say. We all know it'll be hard but nobody ever said it's going to be easy. It will be a pain staking 365 days of your life without him but the hell with it, what ended is your sucking relationship not your freaking life.

FORGET BUT NEVER REGRET. Remember that you both made a mistake. You both contributed to that dilemma so instead of pointing fingers and being bitter about it just leave everything behind. Don't regret that you ever invested feelings to that person because once before he was all you ever wanted. You may both have gone through difficult times but never forget that he made you happy before. Don't let your heart be filled with anger but fill it with good memories.

PICK UP THE PIECES BUT NEVER PUT THEM BACK. Your relationship has ended. It has taken its toll, so please pick yourself up and dust all the dirt he gave. Don't even bother going or running after him again. Stop sending him messages. Don't even try putting everything back together because you are only prolonging your agony. Instead, bring up that old confidence you've kept inside that burning box for like a thousand years. And stop saying that you can not live without him because it's not true. You were able to live a life before you even met him so, why not live that life again?

FEEL THE PAIN BUT NEVER KEEP IT. Cry all you want, spend your nights out, you can even get drunk and get wasted, say things you've been wanting to say for the longest time. You can even eat all the comfort food you can or curse a countless time. Do everything that will ease up the pain you feel even if it takes a you a lifetime but in the aftermath make sure that you put yourself together and leave everything in the past. Forgive him and forgive yourself. Don't hold grudges. Life is much easier to live when you don't feel any hatred against anyone.

MOVE ON. You have passed through a bend in the road. So, now it's time for you to get a life. A NEW LIFE! The world has taught you a lesson, now do yourself a favor, learn that lesson well and never do the same mistake again. Search your soul and not love, let it come to you. God has destined you to be with the person you deserve in the right place and time.

So, there it goes. I hope it may enlighten your broken hearts and give you hope for another day. Life is beautiful.


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